A Buddhist Teaching on Ego and Meditation

22 May 2025
The Humble Path to Inner Peace: A Buddhist Teaching on Ego and Meditation

As the middle of the year approaches, it's an opportune time for practitioners to reflect on their personal development. How many positive changes have been created? How many good things have been documented? How many negative habits have been eradicated? These accomplishments will define your year, and for those who haven't accomplished much yet, six months remain to use wisely.

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The Habit of a Good Meditator

A particular habit exhibited by accomplished meditators is the practice of letting go of the self to attain inner peace. By releasing attachment to the ego, one can connect with their true inner nature.

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Master Nun, the founder of a renowned temple, exemplified this quality. Though she was an exceptional meditator, she never exaggerated her abilities or proclaimed her excellence. Her humility was so profound that many people initially underestimated her, seeing only "just a lady." She never announced to the public, "Come study with me because I'm the best meditator."

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This stands in stark contrast to those who loudly proclaim their meditation prowess. If one encounters someone who constantly announces, "I meditate better than anyone, come study with me," they likely aren't as accomplished as they claim. True mastery is characterized by humility.

The Viruses of the Mind

Such self-promotion goes against the nature of good meditation practice. It aligns with what Buddhist teachings refer to as "viruses of the mind" – particularly the craving for fame and recognition. Some practitioners, after experiencing one or two good meditation sessions, feel compelled to announce their accomplishments to the world. While sharing experiences isn't inherently wrong, constantly proclaiming one's superiority reveals an attachment to ego.

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Genuine meditators demonstrate their practice not through words but through their conduct – how peaceful they are, how they dress, talk, eat, walk, and live their lives. These behaviors ultimately prove the quality of one's meditation, not mere words or claims.

The Parable of the Lion and the Wild Boar

To illustrate this teaching, there is a story from the Buddha about humility and false pride:

Once, a group of monks was listening to the wise monk Sariputra's teaching. One monk, seeking attention and respect, decided to challenge Sariputra with endless questions, disrupting the session. The other monks were frustrated because this monk was stealing attention from Sariputra's valuable teachings. Eventually, Sariputra and the other monks left.

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When asked about this incident, the Buddha shared a parable:

Once upon a time, a lion had just finished his meal when a young wild boar happened to be nearby. The lion, already full, pretended not to notice the boar and walked away, planning to return another day. The boar, misinterpreting the lion's behavior as fear, called out, "Hey friend! You have four legs, I have four legs. We are equals! Come fight me! Are you afraid?"

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The lion, though annoyed, remained dignified. "Friend, I will not fight you today, but return here in seven days, and we shall have our duel."

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The boar, believing he had intimidated the lion, proudly told his friends about his "victory." His friends, however, recognized his foolishness: "You fool! You have no idea how dangerous a lion is or how weak you are! The lion could easily kill you!"

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Realizing his mistake, the boar asked for help. His friends devised a plan: "Cover yourself in human waste and let it dry for seven days. Before the fight, wet yourself again and stand upwind of the lion."

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The boar followed this advice. When they met again, the lion was repulsed by the smell. "Your strategy is clever," the lion said. "Had you not covered yourself in filth, you would have been killed. I don't even want to touch you now. You foul creature with putrid hair, you reek with overwhelming strength. I grant you victory." The lion departed, drinking from a pond before returning to his cave.

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The boar believed he had won through his own strength, but when he returned to his friends, they said, "We must say goodbye.

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The lion might return. Feel free to stay here, but we need to flee and find somewhere safer."

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The Moral of the Story

The Buddha compared the monk who interrupted Sariputra to the foolish boar. Like the boar, the monk sought attention through false bravado rather than genuine wisdom. And like the boar, whose friends abandoned him because his behavior endangered them all, people tend to avoid those who constantly seek attention through false claims.

This behavior is detrimental to meditation practice and spiritual development. The craving for fame and attention makes it difficult to let go of the self, which is essential for deeper meditation. For those who truly want to improve their practice, remaining humble and avoiding self-promotion is the wiser path.

One of Master Nun's profound teachings was that she would be like a cloth that people use to clean their feet – humble, serviceable, and without ego. This attitude helped her maintain excellence in her meditation practice.

Remember: true mastery never needs to announce itself. Inner peace flourishes in the soil of humility.